Proverbs 16-18
One of the most difficult aspects of relationship is understanding, both in being understood and in understanding the other. Solomon says, “Fools find no pleasure in understanding but delight in airing their own opinions.” Proverbs 18:2 If we are only waiting to share what we have to say in a conversation, we are not listening. I remember an exercise my psychology professor had the class engage in. We were paired, and then one half of the pair had to listen to what their partner was saying for a full sixty seconds. Then they were to try and repeat what was said. This involved concentration and truly hearing what the other person was saying. When the only goal was to repeat what they said, understanding became a solid by-product. Of course, Solomon knew this thousands of years ago. Try it the next time you are having a conversation with someone. You might discover that your opinion isn’t so important after all, and you will strengthen your relationship with the other person.
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