April 20

2 Samuel 1-4
 Turbulent times for Israel followed the death of Saul. While David was the heir apparent, his place of rule and power came through a great deal of turmoil and confusion. This was in large part due to Israel patterning kingly succession after that practiced in other nations; that is, the next king being a son of the former king. This was not the plan of God. Instead, He had chosen a shepherd boy to secede Saul. David continues to show honor to Saul's family, and he expects the same from others. This speaks to his character, and helps in understanding the success of his reign. His legacy gives him such high honor that the chosen Messiah is referred to as the son of David! I often think of David, and his attitude toward such a poor leader as Saul, when I consider the leaders of my time. Some are good, honorable, people, while others are not. However, my attitude toward them is not dependent on their honor, or lack thereof. Whatever my attitude, it is a reflection of my character. This principle holds water for all our relationships. We cannot control another. Our only control is with ourselves.